I will also be looking for a book of the same title. I will only recommend products I believe will help with more power. So, here are some of my suggestions: The first thing I recommend to a woman is to be aware of her body's cues about when she is aroused. That means taking it slow when you are first getting aroused. It is also important to have your body relax when she is ready to get aroused. In other words, she needs to wait until she feels like it. Here are a few tips for getting it started: 1. Keep your body relaxed, but let your mind play. If you are in a meeting with your friends, sit in the meeting room. Be in the back. Have a friend sit next to you in the front. Notice that the person in front of you is more relaxed, and they seem to know what's going on and are enjoying themselves. You don't need to take this to the next level, but just notice when they are more relaxed. Then, go out of your way to do something to make them relaxed. Maybe make a funny face, or just make their day a little better. The more you can be a part of their life, the happier and more satisfied they will be.